🧠 Wellbeing · From the first few weeks
📚 Language and early reading: helping your baby communicate
Communication starts before first words: looks, gestures, coos and shared attention all count. Talk, sing and enjoy books in the languages you use comfortably. There is no need to choose English over Filipino or another home language to support development.
A simple reading kit
- Sturdy board or washable cloth books, checked for loose pieces, damage and age suitability.
- Pictures of familiar people, animals and everyday objects.
- Your voice, a comfortable supported position and a few unhurried moments.
Make conversation part of the day
1. Describe what is happening
Say, 'Let's change your diaper' or 'Can you hear the rain?' Follow what baby notices, and leave pauses rather than talking continuously.
2. Use a warm, expressive voice
A slower, melodic voice can hold attention. Use ordinary words alongside playful sounds and familiar nicknames; affectionate baby talk does not need to be banned.
3. Take turns
Respond to a look, movement or coo, then wait. Copy a sound and add a word. These exchanges matter even before baby can babble.
4. Share books early
You can start in the early weeks. Support baby's head and body, point to a picture and name it. A page or two is enough if that is all they enjoy.
5. Include your family's languages
Sing or tell stories in English, Filipino, Cebuano or whichever languages your family uses. Ask relatives which songs they would like to share; mixing languages is not itself a sign of delay.
Classic mistakes
- ❌ Turning reading into a lesson Let baby look away, skip pages or explore a suitable book. Remove damaged books or loose pieces, and do not force a session to continue.
- ❌ Waiting out hearing concerns Confirm newborn hearing screening and its results with the maternity team. If baby is not responding to sound, loses skills or you have communication concerns, contact your paediatric team or barangay health centre.
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