💛 mom · 0–3 months
🧬 Your partner's body after giving birth
Recovery after birth involves physical healing, hormonal changes and disrupted sleep. Experiences vary. Ask your partner what helps, take responsibility for daily care and avoid treating pain or distress as something she must simply endure.
Practical support
- Prepare maternity pads, comfortable clothes, meals and drinks, plus the maternity team's contact details.
- Agree on visitors and share baby care and household work. Extended-family help is optional and should support your partner's wishes.
Understand and support recovery
1. Uterine recovery and bleeding
The uterus contracts after birth, sometimes causing noticeable afterpains, especially during breastfeeding. Vaginal bleeding and discharge, called lochia, usually change and lessen over several weeks. Follow the team's guidance on bleeding, hygiene and pain relief.
2. Pelvic floor, stitches and surgical wounds
Pregnancy and birth can affect the pelvic floor; tears, an episiotomy or a caesarean incision may need care. Handle lifting and chores, follow wound instructions and ask about gentle movement and pelvic-floor support. Persistent leakage or pain deserves assessment.
3. Hormones and emotional changes
Hormone shifts, recovery and sleep loss can contribute to tearfulness or mood swings, but baby blues are not inevitable. Symptoms lasting beyond two weeks, worsening distress or difficulty functioning need professional support sooner rather than later.
4. Breast changes and feeding
Milk volume often increases in the first several days, though timing varies. Ask for help with painful feeding, engorgement or concerns about intake. Support breastfeeding, formula or mixed feeding without pressure; calm support helps wellbeing but does not guarantee milk supply.
5. Watch for urgent warning signs
Seek urgent care for heavy or rapidly increasing bleeding, fainting, fever, severe abdominal pain, severe headache or vision changes. Chest pain, breathing difficulty, seizures, hallucinations, severe confusion or thoughts of harming herself or baby require emergency help; call 911 and stay with her.
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When in doubt, contact your doctor or midwife. For a life-threatening emergency, call 911.