🎁 The baby registry

Offer a range of choices

• Lower-cost options: muslin cloths, bibs, simple clothing and a digital thermometer.
• Mid-range options: a changing bag, washable play mat or suitable lightweight sleep sack.
• Larger shared gifts: a cot, pram or child car seat. Set budgets in Nigerian naira (₦) using current local prices.
• Practical gifts count too: meals, shopping, transport or help with household tasks.

Build a useful list

1. 1. Choose your own timing

   Starting around month five or six leaves time to research, but there is no required milestone. Share only when comfortable and make clear that gifts are not expected.

2. 2. Check local availability

   Use a shared list or retailer serving Nigeria. Check delivery to your particular address, delivery costs, return policies, warranties and whether purchases can be marked to avoid duplicates.

3. 3. Make contributions optional

   If pooling money, explain what it is for and check platform fees and payout arrangements. Share payment details privately. Offer physical gifts and practical help as alternatives.

4. 4. Choose a mix of clothing sizes

   Keep some newborn clothing and include larger sizes; babies grow at different rates. Choose lightweight clothes for warm weather and adjustable layers for cooler or air-conditioned spaces.

5. 5. Research safety before style

   Check cot and car-seat suitability, product instructions and recall information. Avoid pillows, cot bumpers and sleep positioners. For second-hand gear, inspect condition and completeness; avoid a car seat with an unknown crash history.

6. 6. Leave room to learn

   Prioritise a safe sleep space, transport and daily care supplies. Wait on optional gadgets until you know your baby's needs. Test bulky items for your home, car and usual journeys.

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