💛 Mum · 0–3 months
🧬 Your partner's body after giving birth
Recovery after vaginal or caesarean birth takes time and varies widely. Listen to your partner, share care and household work, and help them access care rather than explaining away pain or distress as hormones.
Practical support
- Maternity pads, comfortable clothes, easy meals, drinks and the maternity team's contact details. Save Nigeria's emergency number, 112; coverage and arrival times vary, so keep a backup transport plan.
- Agree on visitors and rest together. Family recovery customs vary across Nigeria and are optional; choose only those that support your partner's preferences, nutrition and recovery. Herbal remedies must not replace clinical care.
Understand recovery
1. Uterus and bleeding
The uterus contracts after birth, sometimes causing stronger cramps during breastfeeding. Vaginal bleeding and discharge, called lochia, can continue for weeks but should generally reduce. Help track changes and follow discharge advice.
2. Wounds and pelvic floor
Tears, stitches or a caesarean wound may make movement painful. Take on lifting and chores. Ask the maternity team about wound care, gradual activity and pelvic-floor assessment, especially for persistent pain or leakage.
3. Mood and sleep
Hormonal changes, disrupted sleep and the demands of recovery can affect mood. Baby blues are common, not inevitable. Symptoms lasting beyond two weeks, worsening distress or difficulty functioning need assessment through the maternity team or your local primary health centre.
4. Breast changes and feeding
Milk volume often increases over the first few days, but timing varies. Breast fullness and tenderness can occur whether breastfeeding or not. Support breastfeeding, formula or mixed feeding without guilt; seek help for painful feeds or a hot, painful breast with fever.
5. Take warning signs seriously
Very heavy bleeding, fainting, chest pain, breathing difficulty, severe headache or visual changes need urgent medical attention. Call 112 for collapse or severe symptoms. Confusion, hallucinations or thoughts of harming oneself or baby are emergencies; stay with your partner and get help.
6. Share the mental load
Own meals, laundry, appointments and baby care rather than waiting for instructions. Ask what touch, company and rest feel helpful. There is no deadline for feeling 'back to normal' or resuming intimacy.
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When in doubt, contact your doctor or midwife. For a life-threatening emergency, call 112.